The twins Graduated! We had a big party and just finished up cleaning up the house – three months of prep (we even painted part of the house & re-did the kitchen – which should add to re-sale value and we get to enjoy it in the mean time).
My whole life I have always said if I could just raise these children to become happy, healthy and great members of the world, I would be happy. I am one step closer. Whew!!! as all parents know, you start to think – this will never happen, the late night homework helper, drama filled situations, school events, vacations where no one is happy, messy everything, an ex-husband who argued every single step of the way with me, to the point I was the bad person of the family – another post for another day I suppose. So glad I have David now to help with the support – we might not always agree, but we never never say it in front of the kids….team work to the end on the subject of kids. Stand or fall, we do it together.
So now the girls are graduated and off to study graphic design at the local community college and then off to an art school to finish up a bachelors. I could not be prouder of them. How lucky am I to have two such wonderful daughters who are respectful, smart, beautiful and with the biggest kindest hearts and they are finally on the way to be the adults they want to be.
The bonus is – David and I are one step closer to our dream of retirement. In fact we even had two whole days with no kids this past week. We did not do much, but did sleep in, went out to breakfast, took naps, enjoyed the quiet (missed them a lot for sure). We imagine this combined with travel as how our retirement will be – just enjoying life and each other.